Ever since Leah-bear got here I’ve been terrified at the thought of getting pregnant again. I was absolutely against it. I get really bad post-partum depression on top of the exhaustion of having a toddler and a newborn.
Also, you should know that I have always wanted to adopt internationally. So, I wasn’t opposed to raising more children, I just didn’t feel the need to birth any more.
You should also know that Chad really wanted another baby (from my womb) and would really like to raise a little boy. Little boys scare me, but that’s another post for another day.
Quite seriously I asked my doctor how many forms of birth control I could use at one time. ha I kept “encouraging” Chad to get “the surgery” done. I told him when I was pregnant that if he wouldn’t let me get my tubes tied, then he had to have “the surgery” because I already had 2 surgeries. I might have also told him that I was all for it, if he could carry it and birth it.
From time to time we would have the conversation/debate and it was usually quite heated. I wanted him to have “the surgery” so I could go off birth control and be “normal”. He wasn’t ready.
It wasn’t that we fought talked about it a lot, but it was just this underlying unresolved thing. For 2.5 years. I was terrified and ready to be off the pill and he wasn’t ready. Ugh.
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What is your biggest unresolved issue?
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You are certainly making me curious, SarahFae. Just out with it already! 🙂
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haha I’m afraid it all may be a bit of a letdown. It will at least show you how big a mess I am. ha
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